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vintage and secondhand things to get you in the ✨ mood for love ✨

Jan 26, 2025

I know it’s very fashionable these days to roll one’s eyes at the corporate circus that is Valentine’s Day.

A tacky Hallmark holiday filled with cheesy marketing and overpriced, shitty candy, flowers, and dinner dates. And while I may be someone who usually delights in a good eye roll and mocking the stupidity of the general masses, I really really love Valentine’s Day.

It’s cheerfully campy, delightfully cringey, and spectacularly saccharine - it tickles all of the senses!

I LOVE love.

There’s something so deeply human about observing the greeting card aisle at Target the week leading up to the 14th — people huddled, crowded, and frantic searching for a card that sums up all the complexities of tender emotions they feel for their people.

One of those slap-across-the-face reminders that humanity can be soft and precious.

Love, especially in these flaming-garbage-can times, is an act of resistance. And I do think Valentine’s Day needs a little PR marketing refresh in the platonic category.

Celebrate your people! Hug your dude friend and tell him you love him. Make your neighbor a handmade card. Take your mom out to lunch. Buy your colleague a surprise coffee. Call someone you haven’t talked to in a year. Have craft night with your pals and gossip. Stand up for the vulnerable people in your bubble.

You get the picture.

And with that, some vintage and secondhand finds to get you in the mood for love.

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vintage hollywood sweatshirt (see measurements, $400, purchase on eBay)
sterling silver puffy heart necklace ($175, purchase on eBay) - this kind of makes my trypophobia flare up, but i think it’s very cool
john kacere lithograph ($1,495, purchase on eBay) (more affordable option here - i have a lithograph of this hanging in my bathroom) - kacere was a photorealist painter and all of his more famous works are of female midsections - there’s lots of debate regarding his work and feminism, but i think that makes his work all the more thought provoking
sterling silver tiffany heart charm ($110, purchase on eBay)
rose 31 le labo perfume ($107+) - i know the perfume industry is booming but i really find it all to be overwhelming - this is my signature scent of the last 4 years and i am a happy gal
mohair cardigan sweater (see measurements, $135, purchase on eBay)
cou cou pointelle cotton briefs (3 pack, $81) - these are new, in case you were worried lol (cotton briefs forever!!)
khaite silver slingback heels (fem 6, excellent condition, $315)
fritz lampl bimini liquor glass set ($187.26, ships from UK, purchase on eBay) - i want this so badly but have so many other things i should be spending my money on! buy this and have your pals over for a craft night and snacks
cherub salt and pepper shakers ($18)
antique french lace curtain ($74.55, ships from France)
antique georgian mourning hair brooch ($210, purchase on eBay) - if you’re super fun and freaky, might i suggest some antique love hair lockets or mourning brooches?! yes, that’s real human hair 🙃

man ray exhibition poster ($175, ships from Netherlands, purchase on eBay) - incredible art alert!
freshwater pearl dangle earrings ($295, purchase on eBay) - this price feels really fair and affordable if you’re looking to start a fine jewelry collection
vintage celluloid cherub necklace ($110)
victorian silver heart lock bracelet ($171.94, ships from UK)
gucci silk opera gloves ($248.50, very good condition)
maison louis marie candle - no.2 le long fond ($38) - this scent reigns supreme in my house
sterling silver oyster with pearl brooch ($215.20)
leopard print pajama set (vintage fem l, $41.56 on sale)
vintage valentine vase ($34) (or this trinket dish, which i forgot to include in this collage)
alberto vargas coffee table book ($19.95, purchase on eBay)
manolo blahnik heels (fem 8, very good condition, $476)
victor costa black pleat dress (vintage fem s, see measurements, $89)

Until next time,
xo,
G

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