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Feb 7, 2023Liked by Glenn Mae

I’m 100% here for the “deinfluencer”... I want to know how to rework and feel inspired by what I already own rather than a list of the new hottest items I just need to purchase! Also, SO surprised Mike is pro-TikTok, his love and support of you knows no bounds and that makes me happy ☺️

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Jan 30, 2023Liked by Glenn Mae

I love tik tok and I think you would thrive on it once you find your community. I use the block button liberally. It is a time suck though. I've been considering putting parental controls on my own phone for tik tok specifically. I have found soooooo much creative inspiration through following artists and watching people get dressed on the app. Also - One of my favorite memes rn that's been circulating tik tok "Don't kill the part of you that is cringe. Kill the part of you that cringes."

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Texting you immediately for follow recommendations because obviously there is a really fantastic side to the 'Tok and I just haven't discovered it yet! I'm happy to hear there's opportunity to still be inspired -- everything I've experienced so far feels so far removed from that realm! I need to get over my fear of being cringe!!

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Jan 28, 2023Liked by Glenn Mae

I always say I have social (media) anxiety. It can be really fun and exciting, but it really is such a time suck and I have a really hard time not playing the comparison game, especially with Instagram. I do, however LOVE TikTok! I usually hate creepy algorithms but I love that I can pretty much always count on being entertained when I open the app. Such an interesting topic! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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The comparison game is the worst and honestly what fuels all this back and forth I have about putting myself out there on the internet! Sounds like the general consensus is that people like to use TikTok to be entertained rather than informed and I appreciate that! Thank *you* for sharing your thoughts -- and for the Christmas card! Such a delightful surprise :)

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I've been waiting for this day lol!! I think being on TikTok has been an interesting mental exercise to say the least. There are so many different types of humans sharing content for an endless amount of reasons. I like TikTok for the creators who are there just to connect with folks about niche topics or to share their life experiences, post-the most isolating collective experience in recent history. Though as soon as someone sounds condescending or too "influencer-y" I quickly scroll. I mainly stay for the history nerd stuff, outfit inspo, and quick laughs tbh. But that's also primarily what TikTok serves me up these days - that's how they getcha!

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This all makes complete sense! I think it comes back to the whole "the internet doesn't have to be serious or complicated." You can express yourself in video format in an online matter in the modern world because that's what tickles your fancy and fuck the rest -- it's a good reminder and one that I need to hear often. Soooo text me and tell me who to follow to fix this hot mess FY page I have going on!!

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